Najteži dani u njenom životu: Claire Holt izgubila bebu

Glumica Claire Holt koju smo zavoleli u serijama “The Vampire Diaries” i “The Originals” jako se radovala tome što će postati mama ali to se nažalost neće desiti tako brzo kao što je očekivala, s obzirom da je doživela pobačaj.

Claire je to objavila na svom Instagramu gde je napisala, “Ova fotka je nastala pre 10 dana, dok sam čekala operaciju pošto je mojoj bebici prestalo da kuca srce. Poslala sam je mom vereniku da mu pokažem da sam OK. Ipak, nisam bila u redu. Nikad se nisam gore osećala u svom životu. Razmišljala sam da li da ovo podelim tako brzo i plaši me što nešto tako lično delim sa javnošću, ali radim to jer je važno.”

“Kad sam izgubila bebu, provela sam sate na internetu tražeći žene koje su prošle kroz ovo. Očajnički sam htela da pronađem nekog, bilo koga ko je mogao da razume šta ja osećam. Neko ko će mi reći da je depresija koju osećam normalna. Da ovo nije moja greška. Da ovaj osećaj neće trajati zauvek. Pronašla sam takve žene koje su bile vrlo otvorene u vezi pobačaja, teme o kojoj se ne govori mnogo. Za sve koji su ovo doživeli, ja vas razumem. Budite dobri prema sebi i ne plašite se da podelite svoju priču”, zaključuje ona.

I took this photo 10 days ago, as I waited for surgery after my sweet little baby lost its heartbeat. I sent it to my fiancé in the waiting room to show him that I was ok. I wasn’t. I’ve never felt more broken in my life. I debated sharing this so soon and I’m still frightened about making such a private struggle public, but I’m doing it anyway because it's important. After my D & C, I spent hours on the internet searching for women who had been through it. I was desperate to find someone, anyone, who could relate to what I was feeling. Someone to tell me that the depression and hopelessness were normal. That it wasn’t my fault. That I wasn’t broken forever. I found a community of women who shared my exact experience. Who were open and vulnerable about miscarriage, something that isn’t often or openly discussed. It breaks my heart to think that losing a baby feels like something we have to keep to ourselves. Why is it any different than the death of a loved one? How is it any less meaningful? Here is what I have learned as I begin to crawl out of the dark hole: support is everything. I could not have survived this without the unconditional love of my partner. Despite his pain, he was my rock and my safety net. I will never know how to thank him. I also found that opening up to people is crucial. As soon as I told my story, almost everyone I spoke to told me theirs – their own, their wife’s, their sister’s. So many people go through it and understand the breadth of pain, yet so few people talk about it. Finally, I want to share a blog post that resonated with every part of me. You can find the link in my bio, @leandramcohen of @manrepeller articulates the emotional rollercoaster with an eloquence that I could never possess. To anyone out there who has been through a miscarriage, I understand you. I share every bit of your pain and you are not alone. Please be kind to yourself and I hope that you will be comfortable sharing your story too.

A post shared by Claire Holt (@claireholt) on Mar 4, 2018 at 3:52pm PST

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